self esteem

Dear LOA: Why Do I Keep Attracting Abusers?

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by Melody Fletcher on April 10, 2014

  Awesome Tammy’s Burning Question: “Why do I keep attracting abusers? I have brilliant honest, open, respectful, loyal and loving relationships. The problem I have is they want to know why I am so nervey. I explain about PTSD due to physical, mental, emotional and spiritual abuse. They all become more loving. Then a while [...]

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How to Overcome Your Fear of Rejection

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by Melody Fletcher on April 29, 2013

  Coaching Call #046 came out yesterday. The topic of this week’s call is: Why Do Men Keep Breaking Up With Her? This caller had a pattern of horrible breakups. Men would fall in love with her and then very abruptly end things, usually without any kind of explanation. Although she knew, from having gone [...]

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Does LOA Teach Arrogance?

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by Melody Fletcher on February 14, 2013

  Awesome Dudette asks: “Isn’t it wrong of think of myself as wonderful? Isn’t it wrong to be proud? I’ve always been told I’m arrogant and that I think too much of myself.” The Law of Attraction, at least the way I teach it (and many others, including Abraham-Hicks), is based on the concept of [...]

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Learning To Take A Compliment

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by Melody Fletcher on January 3, 2013

  [Quick Note: I am currently on vacation, wallowing in the gorgeous surroundings of an Austrian Spa. I do this at the end of every year. I not only recharge my batteries, but I also always end up coming back with tons of insights and ideas, which I then share on the blog. So really, [...]

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  Awesome Dudette asks: “I am a little confused about the attraction process, especially, in romantic relationships. It has been said that the people in our lives are our mirrors. When it comes to a bad relationship, meaning that your partner is distant or unfaithful, does this mean that you attracted a neutral person and [...]

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  Awesome Saurabh asks: “Many LOA teachers say that if you want something, and visualize it daily and then take action… it won’t work if you have some negative limiting beliefs in your subconscious mind. So, I want to ask you, if I want something and have many, many negative beliefs around that, will it [...]

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Are You In An Abusive Relationship With Yourself?

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by Melody Fletcher on November 4, 2012

  Coaching Call #021 is out today! The topic of this call is: Finding Her Passion And Moving Towards It. In this call, I helped a client figure out what her real passion is, as well as clearing a whole host of beliefs that were in her way, such as that you can’t make money [...]

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Using Metaphors To Change Self-Esteem

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by Melody Fletcher on March 4, 2012

Today, we’re going to do something a little different: A kind of She Said – She Said thing. In Part 1, Mary Carol Moran will offer her point of view, and in Part 2, I’ll offer mine. Enjoy! Mary Carol: Most days I view the world through the screen door of my perceptions, and the [...]

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How To Love Yourself

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by Melody Fletcher on December 13, 2011

It’s Video Tuesday! Yaaaaay! If it’s one thing that I’ve learned in doing this work is that everyone can benefit from loving themselves more. It’s something you hear all the time – “You just have to love yourself”. But… what does that even mean? How can you learn to love yourself, when you currently don’t [...]

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Perception is reality. We know that. Or do we? Recently, I had occasion to remind myself of a lesson I learned a while back. Yep, this is one of my weight loss stories, but the lesson itself can be applied to all kinds of situations. So, even if you’re not interested in losing weight, keep [...]

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