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Dear LOA: Why Do I Keep Attracting Abusers?

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by Melody Fletcher on April 10, 2014

  Awesome Tammy’s Burning Question: “Why do I keep attracting abusers? I have brilliant honest, open, respectful, loyal and loving relationships. The problem I have is they want to know why I am so nervey. I explain about PTSD due to physical, mental, emotional and spiritual abuse. They all become more loving. Then a while [...]

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  Coaching Call #066 is out! The topic of this week’s call is: When You’re SOOOO Close: Shifting Subtle, Hard to Find Resistance. This call is an excellent example of how hard it can be to find the subtle pieces of resistance, when you’re ALMOST there, but not quite. This client can’t seem to find [...]

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Dear LOA: Does It Matter WHEN We Ask For Something?

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by Melody Fletcher on April 2, 2013

  Awesome Shirley asks: “My question is about ‘Timing’.  Since a great many things in the universe follow a time schedule, i.e. seasons, gestation periods, periods!, the moon, the tides, planet rotation etc., is there a time to ASK the universe?  My intuition is telling me that no, there isn’t. The best time to ask/visualize [...]

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Dear LOA: Is It Ok If I Leave My Husband For Another Man?

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by Melody Fletcher on February 12, 2013

  Awesome Dudette asks: “So I guess my question is about following your heart. And following what you feel God is telling you even though it seems a lot of people will have a hard time and be hurt by it. For instance, what if you are married to a good man who provides for [...]

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Dear LOA: I feel Guilty Because My Partner Makes The Money

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by Melody Fletcher on January 10, 2013

  Awesome Dudette asks: “I’ve been married for over ten years and my husband and I have two, wonderful little boys. Our marriage is actually really good, except for one thing. Well, it’s not really my husband’s problem, but mine. He has a job and I stay at home and take care of the kids. [...]

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  Awesome Dudette asks: “I am a little confused about the attraction process, especially, in romantic relationships. It has been said that the people in our lives are our mirrors. When it comes to a bad relationship, meaning that your partner is distant or unfaithful, does this mean that you attracted a neutral person and [...]

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Dear LOA: How Do I Explain This Stuff To My Partner?

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by Melody Fletcher on October 18, 2012

  Awesome Steve asks: “I recently spent a long time out of work. I changed my whole perspective, took the LOA approach and landed a fantastic contract that was even better than I had dreamed. The contract has now ended and my dreams have changed. I’m now spending my time dreaming and feeling etc. but [...]

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Should You Fix Your Dysfunctional Relationship Or Run Like Hell?

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by Melody Fletcher on September 18, 2012

  Derrek asks, “Some people genuinely love each other despite going bat-sh*t crazy on each other each and every day. It’s weird, but it’s not unheard of. In fact it’s fairly common. And I think it starts to kick-in once a couple has been together for several years (married or otherwise), meaning it was not [...]

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Can I Use LOA To Get My Husband To Take Out The Trash?

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by Melody Fletcher on March 18, 2012

Stop me if this DOESN’T sound familiar: You see your husband at breakfast, just before the two of you rush off to your respective jobs. It’s chaos. You get the kids off to school, having packed their lunches, signed their permission slips, and mediated their fight about who has cooties (or the Black Death. I’m [...]

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What Gay Couples Can Teach Heteros About Marriage

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by Melody Fletcher on December 15, 2011

Cindy’s been married to Dave for five years. Both of them work full time, and when they both come home exhausted at the end of the day, Cindy makes dinner while Dave checks his emails or watches a bit of the game. After the meal, Cindy cleans up the kitchen and Dave takes out the [...]

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