Ok, so you’ve mastered the art of manifesting a parking space. Whoop-dee-doo, you might say. What about acquiring a skill, a language, an instrument or art? Well, today’s your lucky day. We’re going to dig into how to manifest these longer-term goals in today’s video. You’re freaking welcome. Also, you know… Happy Shiny New Year my Puppies!!! Yay!
Coaching Call #186 is out. The topic of this week’s call is: How Can She Release Her Resistance And Learn To Connect With Herself?
This caller’s relationship ended recently and although it was an unhealthy one; she can’t let go of him. She’s feeling all kinds of emotions - anger, impatience, anxiety, naming just a few, and she desperately wants to release them, but how does she go about doing that?
What messages do these emotions have for her? When did she first feel this way, and what can she do to release the emotions that are no longer serving her?
This caller has a lot of resistance and her mind keeps wanting to argue with her, but her stubbornness to feel better is so much stronger. This call has a great technique to get you started on releasing your negative beliefs - you’re welcome!
This call is for you if you have a lot of resistance and you’d like to know what you can do to release it and get to a better feeling place.
Awesome Mario’s Burning Question
“I’m still looking for a good example for the Law of Attraction. Parking spots, trips to Paris, etc. are not really my topics. I’d love to hear how to use the law of attraction for “BIG”, long-term goals like learning an instrument (guitar, piano), learning an art, a language, and so on. That’s what most people get easily frustrated with.”
Here’s my answer:
First of all Mario, thank you so much for your question! This is an excellent one and I’m really grateful to get a chance to explore it. I know we talk a lot about how to manifest a parking spot and starting with something small like that. I did a video a few weeks ago about how to manifest big things as easily as small things and in that video I talk about starting with a parking spot, because there’s no big risk in manifesting something like a parking spot. If you get it or you don’t get it, who cares? On the big things, we often put so much importance on them that they then don’t manifest so easily.
Are bigger goals just as easy to manifest as small goals?
I totally get you. What about long-term goals like learning a skill, learning a language, building up a business or even a relationship that you want long-term? These manifestations, believe it or not, are actually like any other manifestation; the same rules apply. It’s just that you cannot always keep your vibration stable and it’s really not easy to remain stable when you are looking at a long-term goal. You have to keep trusting and you have to keep revisiting that vibration.
For example: You want to build a million dollar business, which can be a long-term goal, although for some people it’s a very short-term goal. Let’s say you think it’s going to take you three years to build that and you have a vision of a business that is really huge, but you know right now, in this second, you can’t create a business that size. You want to open a restaurant or a whole chain of restaurants, you can see them all over the world, but you haven’t yet opened your first one and you don’t even know how to cook. But for some reason, opening a restaurant really gets your juices flowing; it gets you super excited.
Trust the path that opens up
Step into the energy of opening your restaurant(s) as often as possible, and watch for the path to unfold, but remember the path may not look the way you think it will look. This is the thing with all manifestations, especially the big long-term manifestations. When the path opens up, it will feel good, but it may not logically make any sense to you whatsoever because you will only be able to connect the dots of the steps in that path in hindsight – not while they are happening.
This is where that wonderful word “Trust” comes in again. As the path opens up, it will feel really good if you are lined up with that energy. For example, you may be inspired to go to a party and you don’t really like parties, but for some reason you decide to go; you don’t talk yourself out of it, even thought it doesn’t make any logical sense to go. At the party you meet somebody who introduces you to somebody else, and six months later this person introduces you to an amazing new partner, who is a Chef. That’s not the person you met at the party, but it’s the succession of these events that leads to you having a partner to open a restaurant with. Or maybe you meet somebody who becomes your business manager, who teaches you how to actually run the business side of the restaurant.
Over time, pieces come together, but they often come together in really unexpected ways that you could never ever have orchestrated. If you keep the faith and you keep hitting that vibration of what you want, the frequency of that feeling, the path will continue to unfold. Trust that it will and trust that it is unfolding.
One of my absolute mantras for the last few years has been: “I have absolutely no idea what’s going to happen, but I know it’s going to be awesome!” When I am intuitively called to go someplace, have a conversation with somebody, or go to a class or conference, or move to a new city, and it doesn’t make any logical sense to me, I show up anyway! I go anyway because I know it’s going to be amazing; and it always is! I know it’s going to get me a step closer to what I want; it always does!
But, don’t forget to enjoy yourself along the way. Enjoy the ride along the way and then you can’t go wrong.
So Mario, I hope I’ve answered your question. If you’d like to share your long-term manifestations, or if you have a question of your own, please leave me a comment below.
This has been this week’s Q&A. See you next week!