Coaching Call #086 is out! The topic of this week’s call is: A Douchebag Broke her Heart. Isn’t it Wrong or Unenlightened to Confront Him?
This is a fantastic call for all those who want to learn to fine tune their process, as well as anyone who’s ever been broken up with by a douchebag. This client teaches LOA and has no issue helping others, but when it came to getting over a breakup, she couldn’t seem to get any relief. I love this call. It so perfectly highlights the “mistakes” that people who almost know too much, as well as those of us who are intellectual and love to overthink everything often make. When you know all the techniques but can’t seem to shift the belief anyway, how to go move forward?
This call also has a great discussion on confrontation, when it’s a good idea and when it isn’t, the fear that spewing what you might consider your negativity all over someone else might be damaging, and the difference between setting boundaries and trying to control others. In other words, how can you honor yourself without falling into crazy bitch syndrome?
Awesome Supriya’s burning question: “I am trying to communicate with my spirit guides. Is there any possibility that negative or evil spirit guides exist??”
Dear Awesome Supriya,
Here’s your video answer:
You’d rather read? No problem. Here are the highlights:
You’re certainly going to be able to find all kinds of opinions on this topic, many of which will caution you against “demons” and “evil spirits”. Protect yourself, they’ll say. And then they’ll hold a flashlight to their face and go “boogaboogabooga”, you know, just to make sure you get the message.
I can only tell you what I believe, based on what I’ve learned from various teachers and from my own communications with my spirit guides and other non-physical energy.
There are no evil spirit guides. There is no evil at all. There is no dark force that’s trying to lure you to damnation. Also, there’s no damnation. That’s just something humans invented to scare each other into submission with.
I guess, at this point, we’d better take a moment to talk about the concept of evil.
There is no evil
Because, I can hear you asking, “What about all the people who do all the bad stuff in the world? Aren’t they evil?”
In my humble opinion, labeling things as “evil” is really just a lazy copout. It’s a lot harder to dig down into WHY people actually do what they do (because they don’t feel they have a choice), and a lot easier to must call them evil and stick them in a box. It’s a way of explaining scary things that we don’t understand. The concept of evil doesn’t exist.
That having been said…
There are all kinds of energies out there for you to connect with, all kinds of thought energy that people have put out there. What you hook up with and how you perceive it is always up to where your vibration is. You can’t perceive positive energy if you’re vibrating in a negative place.
Or, to put it even more accurately (be prepared to have your mind blown), if you’re stuck in a negative vibration, you can’t perceive positive energy in a positive way.
Let me give you an example: Let’s say that you’re stuck in a bad place, and your spirit guide has a helpful message for you. So, you might have a dream, in which a scary monster shows up to mirror your specific fears back to you. The way it’s been explained to me by my guides is this: that monster is your benevolent, loving spirit guide wearing a scary mask because it was the only way that you’d be able to see it. Your guides can only ever communicate with you in ways that in which you’ll allow.
Now, this communication doesn’t have to be scary. It can be much more positive. The determining factor, however, is always you, and your vibration. If you’re filtering everything through a negative belief system, you’re only ever going to be able to perceive the energy you’re connecting with in a negative way.
How to “protect” yourself from negative experiences
So, how can you make sure that you’ll always have the most positive experience possible, and that you’ll receive the purest possible messages from your guides? My biggest recommendation would be to meditate and get into the highest vibration possible before even attempting to connect with your guides. Not only will that line you up with the most clarity, it’ll actually make it much easier for you to hear your guides in the first place.
Now it’s your turn. Let me know what you think in the comments. Did you learn something? Was this helpful? Have I appeased the Gods by providing a transcript?
Have a wonderful week my puppies!